Hospital waiting rooms
January 25, 2008|
So here I sit, in the waiting room, while DH is in surgery for the 35th time since he was wounded in June 2005. This surgery is outpatient, so at least DH can leave with me today. DH has an AWESOME surgeon, so it's not the surgery that bothers me. It's the waiting and wondering. Waiting for the "all clear" after surgery, and wondering what life will be like when we get home.
The recovery process is the most difficult for me. When DH is in pain and I can't make him feel better. When he gets frustrated because he can't do things he was able to do before the surgery. When 99% of the responsibilities for our family are on my shoulders because DH can't use one (and sometimes both) of his hands. When I don't have anyone who's been through this to talk to when I need to whine (so I can get over myself and drive on). Etc.
It's tough and I don't like it, but this is hopefully the LAST surgery DH will need from being wounded. Plus, the surgery will give him more mobility and strength in his left hand, which I know he is looking forward to. It's the healing/recovery process that I would like to fast-forward through. But I can't, and I accept that.
If any of you reading this have a spouse or loved one wounded in the War on Terror, please let us know!!! We all know that there are things only mil-spouses can understand. And there are things that only family members of our wounded can understand. So why not start networking with one another?
You two are definately in my thoughts today, JdA.
Posted by: airforcewife | 01/25/2008 at 11:12
You and your dh have been in my thoughts and prayers since day 1. I'll say an extra prayer today.
Posted by: HomefrontSix | 01/25/2008 at 12:29
I was thinking about your delightful husband last night, hoping today goes well and that he continues to improve. You two are both so great.
Posted by: Sarah | 01/25/2008 at 13:05
Thoughts and prayers are with both of you today. Keep us posted.
Posted by: Andi | 01/25/2008 at 13:13
Positive thoughts for you both. Successful surgery and smooth recovery from it.
Hugs.
Posted by: Kori | 01/25/2008 at 15:20
Best wishes for a SPEEDY recovery! I'll be thinking of you and your hubby!
Posted by: Erin | 01/25/2008 at 16:05
prayers to you all today.
make sure Chuck knows we are thinking about him today!
Posted by: AWTM | 01/25/2008 at 17:54
Hope everything went well today! (((hugs)))
Posted by: Tressa | 01/26/2008 at 01:13
Our thoughts are with you.
Posted by: Larry | 01/26/2008 at 03:52
Hope everything went well yesterday! And the recovery goes smoothly. Many good thoughts for you guys as you go through this process for hopefully the last time.
Posted by: wifeunit | 01/26/2008 at 09:35
Didn't realize it was the last one. That is so awesome! You have to climb the recovery mountain just one more time.
Hmm... I think a celebration will have to be in order. I'll need to think about that... :)
Posted by: FbL | 01/26/2008 at 15:09
Prayers and God's Blessings to all of you!! Your post are always so inspiring. You exude such strength and courage and determination. Your husband must be so proud of you and I'm sure you are of him as well. I will pray for healing and minimal discomfort for him. I will pray for continued stength and comfort for you.
Posted by: SeabeeSeniorWife | 01/26/2008 at 17:15