The Veteran Who Was Not a Veteran


The horrific, senseless shooting of Representative Gabrielle Giffords and others this past weekend shocked and saddened everyone. As bad as the situation was, early reports were worse. Many claimed Representative Giffords, a military spouse, had died. Thankfully, that was not the case. As I watched the news unfold, I heard something which made me cringe (5:25 in) – the suspect *may* have been an OEF veteran. As soon as I heard this, I knew exactly what was on its way. Speculation that PTSD and exposure to combat would be discussed ad nauseam as a trigger for this violence, and we’d see a parade of “experts” on all the television shows focusing on the negative aspects of military service. Veterans would be under the microscope. Service members who have gone rogue and committed unspeakable offenses would suddenly seem the rule and not the exception though in reality, it’s the other way around. I was not looking forward to round #4,854 of detached experts speak about mental health issues in the military. Shades of Abu Ghraib came to mind. Remember how a handful of despicable individuals tarnished the reputations of hundreds of thousands of honorable troops and made their jobs much more difficult?

Journalists, politicians and pundits are the first to tell us not to jump to conclusions and that initial reports are often wrong, but in the frenzy of big, developing news stories, many chose to report (or speculate on) unconfirmed bits of information, hence the inaccurate reports about who Jared Lee Loughner was. Later, when it was found that Lohener was not a veteran, I was relieved. Not only was he not a veteran, but the Army had rejected him for service. I looked at my husband and said, “Thank God he is not a veteran. And thank God the Army rejected him.” What he did was bad enough. Unthinkable, really. But can you imagine that nut with access to military grade weapons?

The military will not be scrutinized in this situation because there’s no connection to the suspect. I’m relieved that there’s no connection. Though PTS, PTSD and other stressors are indeed real problems, not everyone afflicted with these conditions commit atrocities. Far from it. Sometimes, a deranged nut is just a deranged nut. Shame on those who relayed unconfirmed reports that Loughner was a veteran, or who simply assumed that to be the case.

Representative Giffords was fortunate to receive first-class medical care, and here’s a military connection for which we can be proud.

Rhee, 49, chief of trauma at University Medical Center in Tucson, said his work in the Navy tending to injured soldiers and Marines and teaching the next generation of battlefield medical personnel unquestionably played a role in his ability to treat Giffords and direct care for the 10 other victims who began arriving in his unit Saturday morning.

“There’s no doubt,” he said. “I was in the Navy 24 years, and I trained to do nothing but battlefield casualty care. When I did go to Afghanistan and Iraq, I wasn’t in a hospital. I was in very forward surgical units, so I was very accustomed to working with very little gear and people and personnel, very little resources, with wounds that are very different than civilian injuries,” Rhee said Sunday. “Did it prepare me? I would say of course it did. And that makes it so that when we have a mass casualty of 11 people here, it’s really not as bad as it can get.”

Representative Giffords is the only person serving in Congress who is married to an active-duty service member. By all accounts, she’s doing very well and we continue to hope for the best. We wish her a full and speedy recovery. Captain Mark Kelly, her husband, has posted a message on the congresswoman’s website. As for the other victims and their families – you, too are in our thoughts and prayers.

About the Author


Andi is married to an active-duty soldier and is the founder and former editor of SpouseBUZZ.

She is the founder of the Annual MilBlog Conference. The MilBlog Conference is the premiere event of the year for military bloggers. President George W. Bush, U.S. Representative Adam Smith, GEN David Petraeus, LTG Mike Oates, LTG William Caldwell, RADM Mark Fox, MG Kevin Bergner, MG David Hogg and The Honorable Pete Geren have addressed previous conferences.

While living in Washington, DC, Andi was the Ambassador to Walter Reed Army Medical Center for Sew Much Comfort, a non-profit organization which makes and delivers, free of charge, special adaptive clothing for wounded service members. Andi has worked with several non-profits to help our wounded heroes and their families. She finds that work to be the most rewarding and meaningful of all.

Andi strives to find humor in the good, bad and ugly of life and is a firm believer that laughter has the ability to cure most ills.

  • Marine Wife

    There was another military connection. Apparently, a 70+ yr old retired Soldier helped to apprehend the suspect, AFTER being wounded.

  • MamaFlo

    Thank you for taking time to blog about this. We are stationed in Tucson and the entire city has been grieving this unspeakable act. I work for the Pima County Attorney’s office and we are doing everything we can to assist the victims and witness. We are very fortunate to have so much support for them.

  • Baltimore Bob

    Ban Hand Guns
    Only idiots & Cowards won’t Ban them.
    America is 75% Cowards.
    25% of us have Courage.

    Baltimore Bob