And They Came By the Hundreds of Thousands

Yesterday was my first attendance at Rolling Thunder.   Now that I've been to one, I can't imagine any other or more appropriate way to spend Memorial Day.

Before 9/11 my husband had deployed - but that didn't prepare me for a wartime deployment.  And it certainly didn't prepare me for the feelings that I found myself having every day as I watched friends and the husbands and wives of friends deploy to Iraq and Afghanistan.  That feeling in my stomach - you know, kind of a clenched bottomless feeling - that feeling just never seems to be gone.  Sometimes I wonder if it ever will be.

As the child of two veterans, and a father who was a veteran of Vietnam, I've always known what Memorial Day was - a day to honor those who have died in service to our country.  Memorial Day was always the day my Dad remembered those he served with who never came home.  We would barbecue, yes, but it was also a day of solemn ceremony, wreath laying, and memoriam. 

As an adult, I feel challenged to try to convey to my children exactly what this day means.  After all, they are living through the same life of a military dependent in war time that I am.  And children understand so much more than we give them credit for.

Rolling Thunder was the perfect way for them to understand and see.  The perfect way for them to realize the enormity of what this day stands for.

The parade of motorcycles was led by  the Police. 

I should also say now that I had a bit of trouble with my time/date stamp on the camera.  At some point, the camera switched to 1/1/2006 (obviously not the date the pictures were taken) and I couldn't get it off.  So please the annoying dates breaking up the pictures!

Waving at the bikes...

Between this truck and the Gold Star Mothers truck, I found myself doing something I usually mercilessly crush out of myself - crying in public.  Luckily I had on dark glasses and just needed a few quiet moments to compose myself.  But these trucks were so difficult to watch.

Patriot Guard - a wonderful organization.  There were Patriot Guard riders dispersed throughout the parade of bikes and we made a point of cheering loudly for them whenever they passed.

When my son realized that some of the riders would actually give him five as they were going by...  Well, he spent a great deal of time trying to get all the contact he could.  And the riders were amazingly kind and welcoming of my children (it probably didn't hurt that my son was freshly mohawked and wearing an Airborne shirt from Bragg).

My son is now demanding his own leather vest with patches for next year.

We met these guys walking to the Lincoln Memorial.  They were from Ft. Bragg, which meant that I had to explain my son's t-shirt to them.  No, we aren't from Bragg, that shirt is actually a present from Sarah and her husband.  But my husband DID attend the JFK Special Warfare Center. 

It was terribly convoluted, as far as explanations go.

More bikes rolling through...

Reports I read last night had more than 300,000 riders showing up for Rolling Thunder this year, in the twenty first year since its inception. 

I'm so glad.  And I plan to take my children every year.  It's a lesson and a memorial they just can't get anywhere else, I think.

Comments

[Susan]

Some of the Blue Star Moms from my chapter were up there. The husband is on mosquito warfare training with the Guard in MS this month so we weren't able to attend. I have spoken to people who have been in years past and hear it's an amazing trip with lessons to be remembered for a lifetime.

[Semper Fi Wife]

I am sooooooooo going next year!!
You all looked like you were having so.much.fun!!

[AWTM]

Our family has this on our to-do list...

thank you for sharing

[liberal army wife]

Oh guys... riding in this was AMAZING!! We met some incredible people, and the sound! gave me a real case of the shivers. AFW - wish I'd known where you were, we'd have stopped and let the kids sit on our bike (with the ARMY flag on it....)

If anyone wants to come up next year, let us know.

LAW

[Vypergirl]

You know, now that I see the pics of your kids - I saw you there! We were sitting in the shade over by the Lincoln Memorial. I was about 95% sure that it was you (Identified by your son and daughters!) but I was too chicken to say anything in case it wasn't!

I got to meet LAW at the Pentagon parking lot, it was awesome! Oh and the kids could sit in our sidecar too :)

[Erin]

I'll have to send you the link of West Coast Thunder (our version out here). It was packed as well, and we represented the Patriot Guard well!

[wordsmith]

Great photos, afw!

[Laura, a Military Mom]

Loved the post! (how appropriate that while I'm looking at your post Lee Greenwood is playing in the background, God Bless the USA). Pictures are worth a thousand words.