May 31, 2007|airforcewife
I just received a notice in my email from our family support center about a scam that is targeting military families.
The email, as I received it, is posted after the jump. Please take the time to inform yourself of the situation - that's your protection.
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May 30, 2007|airforcewife
There are dogs all over my base. Obviously, military people have a lot of dogs. In general, we like dogs. Our kids like dogs. While our spouse is gone for deployments and lengthy TDYs, not only is our dog extra company with undying devotion and love, but they bark if someone comes to the door. I can't speak for everyone, but having that extra alarm system makes me sleep much easier at night.
Our dog will go wherever we go.
Sometimes, though, that creates quite a problem.
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May 25, 2007|airforcewife
There have long been shows and movies purporting to be about the experience of being a military family, a military spouse, a military member during wartime. I think that at this particular junction in time, with such a historically low number of Americans with actual ties to the military and yet everyone having an opinion about the history we are writing, there is probably more interest than usual at looking into "what it is like."
I know I get questions all the time. What is it like... to be alone for months at a time? What is it like... to be pregnant while your husband is gone. What is it like... to live on base and hear the National Anthem every night? What is it like...
And then there is the flip side to the "what is it like" question, "I saw on TV..." Yep, that's right. On TV. Without a whole heck of a lot of input from people who actually live the life and with extra drama thrown in for ratings.
So, I have decided to put together my own outline for a show that offers a REAL look at the military family experience. My first rule: lose the beatifully tousled hair and kicky outfits. And NO MAKE UP.
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May 20, 2007|airforcewife
I have four kids and a dog with a finicky stomach, so I rarely go any appreciable length of time without someone getting sick. I deal with snotty noses, I deal with coughing that sounds like barks, I deal with vomiting and potty problems. I medicate people, I talk to the TriCare nurse, I prepare hot water bottles and make sure we're stocked up on chicken soup and Sprite.
And I quite often deal with these things on my own because my husband is either gone or completely engaged at work. I'm not complaining about that - it's just a fact of life for a military family. When I agreed to be a military wife, I also volunteered to pull excessive puke patrol duty.
So what happens when I get sick?
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May 14, 2007|airforcewife
SpouseBuzz Live 2 rocked! I had so much fun and met so many new people that I'm still completely overwhelmed!
I've even got pictures to share... but I think I should go in order of occurance.
So before I get into Saturday's event, I must share the tale of the plane flight.
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May 10, 2007|airforcewife
When I first made the online acquaintance of armywifetoddlermom a few years ago, a new game was developing between the various military spouses supporting each other online.
It is a wonderful game, and perfect for the military families, because just when things seem to be most hopeless and horrible - when nothing seems to be going right - it gives us the ability to laugh about the very worst. It gives us a chance to celebrate surviving hair raising home experiences that would knock Martha Stewart flat and dinner time dynamics that would send Rachel Ray into uncontrollable spasms of fear whenever a bottle of Extra Virgin Olive Oil was placed in her sight.
The game came to be called "Military Family Poker." And I do believe that it is time for our next match up.
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May 9, 2007|Homefront Six
Our church hosts a Military Ministry for the military families within the congregation and within the community. Our focus has been on 2 Chronicles, specifically Chapter 20. In Chapter 20, Jehosaphat and his kingdom are in great danger from Moab and Amon. Jehosaphat is alarmed and seeks the Lord by fasting and praying. God's assurance of victory is delivered to Jehosaphat through a prophet, Jahaziel.
Our "fearless leader" (as I like to call her) pointed out that Jahaziel, a Levite (Levites were in charge of the temple/tabernacle) was exactly where he was supposed to be. He was in the assembly. He was at the temple.
Have I lost you yet? Hopefully not. (I'm a rookie at the Old Testament. I apologize if I blew any of that.)
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May 6, 2007|Molly Pitcher
One of the neat things about the military is you can tell more or less what a service member has done in his or her career. As a spouse, I have enjoyed learning about the various patches, vibrantly colored ribbons, and impressive shiny badges.
It is also good to know when I am talking with someone who has a lot of experience and seniority or who has accomplished a particularly noteworthy or brave feat.
We spouses do not have multi-hued resumes that we wear upon our chests, thank goodness! I can barely get myself and the baby dressed in the morning, let alone properly assemble ribbons and medals on a uniform. Imagine, though, for a minute, what it might look like if we did...
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